Sunday, 2 January 2022

Starting Conversations With Your Kids About Expert

 

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It’s pretty self-evident that your kids are experts in something,


but it’s also pretty easy to forget and overlook when you get older or your children get older. You may feel like you’re constantly being asked to help them, but it is important to remember that they are experts in something and you are just giving them the opportunity to show you what they know.


So just like us adults, your kids know it’s important to learn from their mistakes. It’s also important to remember that they are experts, and every time they make a mistake, they are only learning from the mistakes of the past. It’s important to learn from your mistakes so that you don’t repeat them in the future too.

Speaking of which, there’s a bit of a problem. The same kids who are good at science and math know that if they don’t learn from their mistakes, they’ll get bored and their ability to do anything will stop.


So the kids need our help.


Yes, it is important to learn from your mistakes. But if you don’t, you’re going to come to regret it. A bit like your friend who does too much of the same thing over and over again, but never learns from it. If you don’t learn from your mistakes, you’ll eventually get bored and stop doing what works. And then, you won’t make your new kid friends.


How do we start talking about math and how to solve problems? We start by making a list of things that the kids should know. If they’re not interested in learning them, they don’t care to learn them. They’ll never ask us to explain it to them. But if they are interested in learning the things we mention, we need to explain the concepts and help them get an understanding of them.


A good way to start talking about math is by putting up a poster or printout of a problem. Ask the kids to copy it and explain it to you before you start talking about it.



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Sometimes kids love to be the center of attention. This doesn’t mean you have to be the center, mind you. Sometimes it’s just easier if you’re the center of attention, but you don’t have to do it. The point is that, if you’re on the receiving end of a kid’s attention, you need to respect that attention.


We’ve all done it at some point. We get into an argument with someone and don’t even realize we’ve been arguing. We take our disagreement to the next level and end up yelling at each other.

This happens to me a lot and it sucks. I start to get irritated and think, “This is going to be a really, really long time before we get to this point.” I’m not looking to resolve the issue, just to take the heat out of it.


I agree with everyone who asks this question.


You could say I’m just trying to help you out, but it really doesn’t matter. I’m not even going to go through this with you.

I think I’ve been guilty of this myself. People ask me why they should have kids when they are in college. I’m like, “Well, I’ve known you for five years, you’ve been with me for four years, and we have an unspoken agreement that I’m not going to be with you for long.


There are two main reasons for this. First, there are people like you who are a little weird. The second reason is actually a great one. You tend to hate when someone asks you this question. It's hard to say it's because your kid does not recognize you or understand your feelings. I think that was the most significant reason for my son's success. He's not just a terrible kid, he's not just a great kid.

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